By Vir B. Lumicao
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| The sisters saying goodbye to Hong Kong in December last year |
For two sisters who had lived
in the shadows in Hong Kong for three decades because they had no identity
documents or official status, moving to the Philippines and being able to move
around freely is more than enough to ease their longing for their birthplace.
Dawn and Kaye, who flew home
to the Philippines last Dec 19, are adjusting well to an environment where the
people are shy but friendly, and where the village falls silent at 9pm as
people go to bed, then wake up at 5am.
“When we were in Hong Kong,
we won’t be sleeping until 4am because my friends and I would be playing video
games. Here in the Philippines, we’re awake by 5am,” Dawn said in reply to queries
The SUN Hong Kong sent her through non-government charity PathFinders Hong Kong.
Dawn said she and Kaye are overwhelmed
by the friendliness of Filipinos but find it difficult adjusting to the slow
pace of life where they are now.
“People here are extra-friendly,
but services are very slow! Unlike in Hong Kong where everyone is just rushing,
here they’re just doing everything at their own pace,” she said.
“I do love the quieter life
here in our village, food is way more organic and healthier… We’re adjusting
quite well here, it’s so relaxing, the air is so much cleaner,” she said.
But Dawn said she dislikes
how inconvenient moving around is in the Philippines compared with Hong Kong,
where shops, buses, the MTR and taxis are not far from one’s doorsteps. For
her, jarring tricycle rides on bumpy roads are a challenge.
Staying with their maternal
grandmother and surrounded by relatives, the sisters are learning many things,
such as the “many pamahiin” or superstitious beliefs of rural folks that
prevent them from going out at night, and doing things their way.
“My mom’s family has been
guiding us with everything, teaching us their ways of doing things here. They’re
always willing to help out, so we’re very lucky to have them. It took awhile
for my cousins to talk to us because they’re way too shy,” Dawn said.
“It feels great to be
spending our time with my grandma, cousins and Mom’s siblings. They were very
welcoming when we arrived here, they were also thankful we know how to speak Tagalog,
so, they’re not having a hard time communicating with us,” Dawn said.
She said Filipinos they meet
in their grandma’s place “can be so shy and timid, but once you get to know
each other they will joke ALL the time”. The folks there love to ask the
sisters questions about how it is in Hong Kong and how things are going.
Dawn said Filipinos are very
welcoming but get intimidated when they find out you grew up in another country.
In contrast, Hong Kong people usually ask questions such as “Where are you
from? Are you born in Hong Kong?”
She said once you tell them
you were born abroad, they treat you differently, but in a good way.
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| The sisters when they were too young to understand why they couldn't go to school |
Dawn and Kaye got their
birth certificates in Hong Kong only last November, shortly before deciding to
come of out hiding and fly to the Philippines.
During the 30 years or so
that they spent in Hong Kong, the sisters never went to school and stayed most
of the time indoors. They mingled only with their Mom’s church friends out of
fear they would be found out as undocumented.
When Dawn was born in April
1990, her domestic worker mother Feli reportedly badgered her musician father
to get her registered, but he balked each time they were at the Birth Registry.
“He would always tell my mom
to just go home because he didn't want to queue up and wait,” said Dawn.
By the time her younger
sister was born, their mother, a former domestic helper, had already overstayed
her visa in Hong Kong, and so was scared to go and have the birth registered.
Dawn said when she was around
eight years old, she figured that there was a problem because they didn’t go to
school and never sought medical help when needed. “We would only use
over-the-counter medications,” she said.
Some adults who knew about their
situation treated them differently, calling them “aliens” or “nobody” when
their mom was away or out of earshot.
“Some people are mean, but
most of people we were surrounded with are good people,” Dawn said.
Kaye, meanwhile, was not
aware of their situation until she was a teenager, when her big sister explained
to her why they couldn’t do things their friends did, or stay out late because they
had no Hong Kong ID and might get into trouble.
The turning point came in 2015 when a girl aged 15 jumped to
her death off the bathroom window of a luxury flat in Repulse Bay
because like them, she had no identity.
The girl’s father, insurance executive Nick Cousins and
mother Herminia Garcia, a domestic worker who had overstayed her visa for 20
years, did not register her birth, as well as that of her younger sister, for
fear of retribution.
Garcia was jailed for 20 months for overstaying while
Cousins got eight months in jail, suspended for two years, for failing to
register his daughters’ births.
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| A PathFinders' seminar: The NGO gave the sisters and their mother hope |
Dawn said the incident shocked
her family, but it also gave her reason to look for help. When she came across
an article about how PathFinders has been helping migrant women and their
children in Hong Kong, she saved their number and checked out their website.
She told Feli about
PathFinders but their mother hesitated due to their previous experience of
paying big sums to people who promised to help them, but did not deliver.
The violent anti-government
protests in 2019 served as the impetus for them to contact PathFinders, fearing
they could be checked by police in the streets any time.
PathFinders helped the
sisters and their mother to surrender to Immigration officers in Kowloon Bay on
Oct 16, 2019. They were granted bail of $100 each and told to report back every
four weeks until they got their birth certificates.
Dawn said she and Kaye were
aware they could have stayed and fight for permanent residency in Hong Kong
because they were born here.
“People were telling us that
we have the right to stay in Hong Kong because we were born there, but we didn’t
want to complicate things any more, we just wanted to be free, to do something
with our lives,” Dawn said.
“Our mother wanted to go
back to her homeland to be with her mother and siblings while my sister and I
wanted to start a new chapter elsewhere,” she said.
She said Kaye has already
registered for Alternative Learning System, or ALS, a
parallel learning system that provides a practical option for those who do
not have or can’t access formal education in Philippines schools.
“She’s going to start from
there and see what she can do, she wants to pursue her photography,” Dawn said.
“We miss Hong Kong dearly!
Every single day since we got here, I’d always remember something about Hong
Kong. I miss the food there so much, my friends, the convenience. I just miss
everything about Hong Kong except the pollution,” Dawn said.
The sisters didn’t ask Hong
Kong Immigration whether they can come back for a visit or for work in the
future, Dawn said.
“But I do hope that if
nothing works out for my sister here, she can go back there. If not, Hong Kong
is not the only place on earth where she can start a career. But I’m sure we
can go back to Hong Kong for a visit one day,” she said.
As for herself, Dawn has other plans, and they do not concern Hong Kong. “I am working on my paperto fly to my fiancè in USA,” she said.
The sisters, indeed, are finally home.
